“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord,
plans for good and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” Jeremiah 29:11. One of my favorite verses. And I believe it. Most of the time. I don’t know about you, but sometimes I worry
about my plans. Sometimes I worry about
God’s plans. I mean His ways are Higher
than our ways, (Isaiah 55:8-9) and that concerns me. Sometimes Gods ways are hard. Really hard.
You have been there, right?
Death of a loved one. A failed
marriage in the family. Abuse. Abandonment. Sometimes in the midst of
following God, the plan looks like a tragedy.
The so called name it and claim it people just say to believe
that God will give you the happy ending and He will. I have been alive too long and experienced too
much reality to believe that God is a Santa Claus handing out good jobs, great
husbands and obedient children just because we ask.
What is the plan that God has been asking for you to follow? For
some of you that plan means staying in a less than satisfying marriage, giving
up a career to be home with your family, working outside of the home when you
would rather be there, taking care of
your aging parents, loving a prodigal child, or facing an illness.
Jesus said that he came to give us life and that life
abundantly. (John 10:10). Our problem is that we think abundant means a
new car, a hot tub, a yearly trip to Disney all with good health and good
relationships. Oh we may know better
than that, but still didn’t Jesus say that he gives good gifts?
In fact, James 1:17 tells us that every good and perfect gift
comes from the Father. The truth is that what we consider good is not
necessarily what God considers good. I’m sure you have heard it before that God
is interested in making us Holy.
And often times I not that interested in being Holy. I want the hot tub.
It is fascinating and inspiring to hear how God was in the
details of things like the tabernacle and how they point to Jesus so
clearly. We have a historical view of it
all. But what was it like for the woman
that had to spin the thread for the curtains when she was longing for new
clothes? What was it like for her to
give God that perfect lamb when she might have been concerned with feeding her
family?
God’s prescription was for them to keep remembering the things
that God had done for them. When we look
back and see how God lead us through the difficult times, we get a glimpse of
the plan he had for that, we see fruit in our lives.
If my first husband had not left me, I would not be married to
my wonderful Dan, and I would not have two of my children. If we had not left my family and moved to St.
Louis, my son would not have met his wife.
I would not have met all of you.
There are more blessings than I can count from situations that at the
time seemed more than difficult. They
did not seem like a good plan to me at all.
Looking back and remembering how God’s plan unfolded gives me
courage to accept His new plan.
Sometimes He just wants us to say that we will trust Him. He loves you so much. His plans ARE for your good. Even if it does not feel like it now. Even if it is not your plan. Even if it is hard.
Trying to hold onto your plan is hurting you. Tell someone today about how you have seen God
working in the past. If you don’t have a
story to tell, ask someone to share theirs.
And then let go of the plans you had, and take a leap of faith that
God’s plan is going to be what is best for you.